Instead of obsessing over the idea of being perfect, we should focus on being happy. Happiness isn't linked to perfection, but to our attitude and perspective on life.
he Obsession with Perfection
Modern society has instilled in us the idea that we must be perfect in all aspects of our lives: physically attractive, successful professionals, exemplary parents, and perfect friends , etc.
Moreover, if you have ever tried it, if you have let yourself be carried away by those ideals, you will undoubtedly have discovered the high price to pay for it: low self-esteem and the feeling that we lose control of our own lives.
This obsessive pursuit of perfection can be exhausting and, paradoxically, can lead to unhappiness instead of happiness.
The truth is that perfection is an unattainable goal. Nobody—and I mean nobody—is perfect. Nobody can meet all the standards and expectations that society imposes. We all make mistakes; we all have flaws.
So instead of seeking perfection, it is essential to focus on being happy and accepting ourselves as we are with our imperfections.
Happiness is, essentially, balance . It's finding that perfect point where we feel good about ourselves, without needing to be anything else. Happiness is not feeling obligated to achieve what others dictate and what doesn't suit us.
Imperfect, free, satisfied, and happy
Today, beauty standards, social media opinions, and other factors have become so extreme that people feel pressured to achieve unattainable goals. This can lead to seeking approval, facing criticism from others, and experiencing personal suffering.
Then comes a moment in our lives when we inevitably take stock. Is all the effort, suffering, and unattainable ideals worth it?
Learn to be more free
Believe it or not, there's no feeling more pleasurable and satisfying than feeling free. Breaking free from the chains and flowing. To achieve this, it's important to keep these strategies in mind.
Learn to be aware of everything that restricts your freedom (people, fashions, customs).
Freedom forces us to consider what is truly important to us.
Being free allows us to reconcile with our essence and our inner voice.
Be authentic by loving your imperfections
If your nose is a bit aquiline or too flat, what does it matter? It's a trait inherited from your family, and in turn, it makes you unique and one of a kind.
So what if your hips are wide? If we were all the same and had the same measurements, we'd be robots. We'd be mass-produced beings, and no one would stand out from the rest.
Every feature, every attribute of your face and physique makes you a unique and exceptional person. If you also take care of yourself, feel good, and connect with the image reflected back at you, there is no greater happiness. There is nothing better than someone who loves and accepts themselves just as they are.
Remember
Happiness isn't about accumulating things or people. It's not a magic formula, and it's certainly not found in self-help books.
Happiness isn't necessarily linked to perfection, but rather to our attitude . The way we face challenges, difficulties, and imperfections largely determines our emotional well-being. All it takes to achieve perfection is to be at peace, to have people who love and accept us for who we are, and to enjoy everything life offers us each day.